Interpersonal Technique Seeing Both the Person Before You and the Future — English Edition —
Without noticing it, your heart begins to wear down through your interactions with someone.
You usually realize this at night.
In a quiet room, your breath suddenly becomes shallow.
You don’t know the reason, yet only your heart feels exhausted.
What wears down your soul is not someone’s words.
It is the moment you ignore yourself.
“Interpersonal Technique” is not about how to deal with people.
It is the skill of facing others without eroding yourself.
And for that, it is not enough to look only at the person in front of you.
Unless you hold another perspective — the “future” — your judgment will easily be shaken.
When you speak of ideals, others may find you bothersome.
But ideals are not merely your personal wishes.
They are, in truth, the future of your organization, your society, and the world itself.
And finally, what you need is the perspective from which you judge “Interpersonal Technique.”
Without this, the structure of human relationships will remain unchanged — even 100 years from now, even 1,000 years from now.
From here on, read only if you feel called to.
I will leave it quietly.
