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Liberating
Youth
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Introduction
The first essay in this pamphlet, "Young
and Oppressed," was originally published only a year ago, though it was
written more than a year previous. I have not made substantial changes
to this edition, though I was tempted to do so. It stands best as is,
written by a 17 year-old and a 20 year-old.
The first edition was released by Behind
Enemy Lines Publications, now Critical Mess Media, on the occasion of my
co-author's 19th birthday. Now Sara is 20, and I am 23. We are getting
older all the time, but we both attest to feeling youthful, which is
what counts.
The obvious change in this edition,
besides the publisher, is the inclusion of a second essay, written by
myself (with the inclusion of some material written with Sara Zia),
called "Revolution Kid Style." The title is taken from a popular slogan,
origin unknown. That saying seems to sum up what this world needs dearly
at this hour. The call is for all young people to wake up and make
change in this world before this world has permanently changed them.
Another difference you might notice is
the lack of quotations from other sources which adorned the margins of
the last edition. In order to make room for all the new material,
including a glossary of terms, I opted to scrap most of the quotes. The
bibliography has not been updated, though it may be for the standard
edition.
This is a special edition, produced
literally the night before the 1997 Youth Summit organized by the
National Child Rights Alliance. That means it is liable to be changed
slightly and reissued when we have more time to work on it. This is not
an official product of Critical Mess Media, but the standard edition
will be.
Anal retentive readers will probably
find several errors, both large and small, in the content of this
pamphlet. Well, that's life. Hopefully, they will be corrected in the
second edition.
I sincerely hope activists, young and
old, will find much of value in these pages. Many of the ideas presented
are purposely vague and ambiguous, because it is my intention to leave
readers open to draw your own conclusions. What is important is that we
initiate and maintain discourse on the vital subjects of youth
oppression and liberation. It is far less important that we give the
answers than that we seek them.
I truly hope readers will get in touch
with Sara and me regarding what is written here. I publish a zine called
Dissident Scrapbook which is a forum for discourse regarding
youth lib issues. As well, we are still looking to begin a zine at
Critical Mess Media entitled Kid Lib. Most of all, we just love
hearing from other young rads who generally share our beliefs and
concerns.
—Brian
A. Dominick
April, 1997
Young and Oppressed
While most common oppressions, such as
sexism, racism, classism, heterosexism, even speciesism, have been
identified, widely acknowledged, thoroughly discussed and deeply
analyzed, one oppression remains largely untouched. This fact is
astonishing given that the group oppressed by this ignored injustice is
one to which every adult human has once belonged. It is the one
oppression with which all humans can identify, having suffered from it
directly. It is not an oppression of a tiny minority to which few will
ever belong. It is not the oppression of people who can be blamed
themselves — by any stretch of the imagination — for being among the
oppressed.
The oppressed group is that of young
people — all young people.
As we will further demonstrate, adults
and adult institutions in our society regularly commit acts of abuse,
coercion, deprivation, indoctrination and invalidation against young
people. From the moment of conception, young people are oppressed by
their elders, entirely based on the difference in age, via a
process known as "ageism."
As an oppression in need of
acknowledgment and understanding, ageism is vital to oppression theory.
Yet its overall framework has long been ignored. Sure, many an author
has attempted to discuss the relationship between parent and child,
teacher and pupil, detention center officer and detainee, etc. But when
has it been stated that adult society, as an institution, oppresses the
young regularly, consistently, and without exception? And when has it
been stated further, in any detail, that this oppression is vital to,
and largely born of, society's need for maintenance at such absurd,
atrocious levels?
Let's face it: when adults look at
oppression theory, they do so from a "grown up" perspective — one which
sees right over the heads of even their own children. While the Left
takes great pride in its defense of women, the impoverished, racial and
religious minorities, etc., it fails to realize that among the most
thoroughly and widely oppressed are society's young. In our struggle for
true liberation, we can leave no one behind — especially not those to
whom the torch of revolution shall be passed. That is why ageism needs
to be recognized.
Which brings us to why ageism is unique
among oppressions: we are all directly its victims. It is not at all
presumptuous to claim that the one oppressive dynamic*
of which we have all been on the receiving end is that of ageism.
Indeed, we are all victims of every oppression acted out in our society.
But none other than ageism claims each of us like a man carves a notch
on his headboard, like a bombardier a stencil on his airplane, a
capitalist a dollar in his bank account.
That is significant. When we step back
and observe the social engineering performed by society's institutions
upon its members, oppressions are plainly spotted in the tool chest of
the dominant. Among those oppressions which help maintain the power
positions of the wealthy white Christian heterosexual male elitist
adult, ageism is universal. It is also, unlike the others which are
interchangeable, completely indispensable to society's maintenance of
individual apathy.
In order to be a permanent victim of an
unjust society's power structure — that is, accepting and not resisting
one's own victimization — one must be engineered as a child to remain
docile in the face of oppression. Certainly young people who are
impoverished, female, African American, gay or otherwise in position to
be oppressed, are conditioned for disempowerment. But what about white
male children of upper class parents? Why do they show the same signs of
submission and apathy when confronted by oppressors? Why do they, by and
large, fail to expose and resist injustices, both in concept and in
everyday encounters? Could it be because, as children, they undergo a
rigorous process of indoctrination, both formal and informal, in
schools, on television, at church, in the home? Could it be because they
have been abused and coerced by legal systems, parents, teachers,
police? Because they have been invalidated by overpowering institutions
and individuals whose purpose it has been to teach them of their
"incompetence," their "worthlessness"? Could they be so as a result of
having been deprived of their right to self management, of simple needs,
indeed of love and understanding and support? Could it be, at last,
because throughout childhood and adolescence they have been treated as
adult society has seen fit for its young — ignored, conditioned,
neglected, brutalized, violated and compelled?
Then, as adults, they reproduce their
own suffering, this time inflicting it upon those the society of which
they are now full members has traditionally oppressed. As adults, they
are offered power over — if no one else — the people on whose behalf few
stand: their children, their younger neighbors, their adolescent
customers, their voiceless constituents.
It is clear that ageism is not just
another oppression. In some cases (few would disagree) age difference,
aside from being the basis for oppression, is a justification for
special treatment. Surely children require guidance as they learn for
themselves about social realities. In many cases, clear bounds need
setting by adults, for the child's safety and indeed for her or his
benefit. But how much more often than not does the relationship between
adult and young person — between adult institution and the young
population — become counterproductive, destructive, outright violent?
Why are these inequities not exposed, denounced and struggled against by
those of us who regularly fight other oppressions?
These issues, equal in importance to the
full examination of ageism itself, are in dire need of discourse. With
that in mind, we hope to present, from our own biased perspective as
young people, what we see as the issue: What is ageism? How does it
manifest itself in practice? What are its results?
Political Ageism
Few oppressions are more obvious than
those perpetrated by governments. From laws to bureaucracies, the
manipulation factor in state systems is staggering. The most blatant
mechanism employed by government towards the oppression of its subjects
is certainly the legal system. Consistently, it is laws made
specifically against young people which most flagrantly display the
state's contempt for their youthful attitudes; mindsets which by their
nature contradict prevailing social values and norms. After all, young
people are one of the only oppressed groups which the US government not
only discriminates against in an official capacity, but towards whom it
does so unabashedly and without apology. The list of things the state
will not allow people to do based on their age is seemingly endless. At
the same time, the rights and "equality" of most other oppressed groups
are lauded and, at least to some extent, protected by government
agencies.
There is little validity to the argument
that young people, due to their inexperience, need to be protected from
themselves by agents of the state. It is the government's own interests
which require defense from young people's natural lack of subordination
and submission. Hence, authoritarian structures are forced to protect
themselves by containing the expression of free thought and activity by
children and adolescents. As a sort of insurance policy, the government
stunts self-confidence, individuality and creativity at the earliest age
possible, knowing full well that its resurgence in adult life will then
be unlikely. People must be trained for submission when they are most
vulnerable to impression, which happens to be when they are young.
The government displays its contempt for
young people's ability to determine the courses of their own lives by
trying to restrict their access to everything from R-rated movies and
ear piercing to alcohol and tobacco. Conflicting with the concurrent
pressures introduced by the market economy — which encourage
participation in "risqué" entertainment, exotic fashion and drug usage —
the imposition of such limitations is counterproductive at best,
probably even devastating. The mixed messages conveyed by the two wings
of the establishment that possess the farthest-reaching influence pit
(commercially manufactured) impulse against (state-imposed) inhibitions,
and the confused results are ruinous.
Another outstanding and pressingly
current example of legal ageism is the rash of curfew laws which is
presently sweeping the nation. While crime rates hover at mid-1970s
levels, violent incidences have become increasingly concentrated among
the young community, particularly in urban areas. Rather than take an
approach which could be labeled even slightly rational, many local
governments have decided to pass new laws and further restrict the
rights of young people. Though laws will never keep young people
indoors, they will surely keep them out of places where they can safely
meet and recreate. Meanwhile, the boredom, frustration and despair felt
by many young people is only fueled and aggravated. This is a clear
example of coercive power used to deprive young people of the freedom to
act as they choose, regardless of whether harm would be done to
themselves or someone else (the usual accepted criteria for determining
legislation).
As few clear-minded folks would dispute,
modern states have managed with alarming success to master the art of
indoctrination. Without using severe and boisterous methods of
brainwashing, the government has achieved the relatively efficient
production of numbed minds, conditioned for obedience, servitude and, in
turn, the perpetuation and magnification of state power. Not only does
the state define the curricula which will be imposed upon any student
whose parents cannot afford private school (and upon many whose can),
but it forces them to attend classes in Eurocentric barbarism, as
dictated by powerful adults who define education standards. Those mental
factories which the government does not control it at least regulates.
In the classroom, the student learns,
above all else, that learning is boring, degrading and difficult. Based
on quantitative systems of instruction, even the most progressive
mainstream schools educate young people of little else than submission,
assimilation and conformity. It's not what you learn that counts, it's
how much you can prove you know. More still, as education standards and
expectations regress, the rule is who knows more, not if anyone knows
anything of relevance.
The enforced process of hand-raising,
through which the student demonstrates her or his subservience to the
teacher, is a classic display of the demeaning relationship promoted by
formal scholastic activity. The teacher, at the same time, is an adult
who is chosen unpluralistically and given ultimate authority — not only
in the sense of "expertise" but also of "power." That is, the class is
being run by someone who is vastly different in age from the students,
and was chosen not because of leadership competence but knowledge alone;
charisma, compatibility and attitude being irrelevant.
While the teacher is dictating many
rules and little important knowledge, the students are being stratified
and segregated. Young people begin the process of discrimination by
gender, class, race, etc., which reflects the attitudes of parents and
teachers, before they are in grade school. "Boys are good at math and
science, girls needn't so much as try their best." "Black students do
not possess the capacity to learn as well as whites, so we'd might as
well spend less energy trying to teach them." The pattern is irrational,
but it has been consistent and unwavering for centuries.
Although experimentation with a
progressive concept known as "inclusive education" is now being
undertaken around the country, the separation of students according to
their perceived ability to learn is still dominant throughout most US
schools. Elites are formed of "gifted" students who display a propensity
to learn at a faster pace, while "normal" students are herded into
overcrowded classrooms across the way from those tagged "disabled." Do
these distinctions haunt the adult lives of students grouped as such
because they were originally accurate or because they became
self-fulfilled prophecies during childhood and adolescence? Furthermore,
in case the labelling system does not sufficiently stabilize a young
person's self-image, requiring that his or her class ranking be included
on every high school transcript does the trick.
Formal education, whether it be
collegiate or secondary, is wonderful practice for one experience which
can be looked forward to by prospective adults: routinization. School
teaches people to fall into line, obey rules and, most of all, to
qualify. Whether one learns anything or not, one had better pass the
final; whether one works a fulfilling job as an adult, one had better
bring home a paycheck.
Other government institutions practice
ageism as well. There is little argument on the Left that the US
military — any military, for that matter — uses severe forms of
indoctrination, coercion and invalidation, whose effects overshadow even
those of the most thorough scholastic "education." The recruitment
practices of the armed forces are diabolical in their use of propaganda
and outright lies, as well as their focus on young people, not so much
for the acquisition of strong, young bodies as impressionable minds.
Save for professional criminality, the military is often seen by
America's poor to be the only way out of poverty, a fact illustrated by
disproportionate numbers of Latino, Afro-American and working class
recruits. And again, the military complex instills the same biases and
psychological effects as the education system, only with much greater
severity. The broad effects of military service on the individual young
person, not to mention whoever s/he is manipulated or forced or bribed
into killing, are clear and disastrous.
As our world becomes more and more
technologically advanced, it has become increasingly difficult for
individuals to maintain any sense of individuality. As humanity is
herded and oppressed as a whole, it is the young who receive the most
trampling. As if the isolation felt by adults is not enough, their needs
are often fulfilled by the state (over which adults at least have
some power) far prior to the needs of their children. We live in a
system where even those adults whose voices are allowed hearing receive
very little from the power structure which holds them down. So how can
we (especially those of us on the Left) have gone so long without
recognizing that young people, whose voices are seldom heard if ever,
are even more severely oppressed by that same, inherently violent system
of authority and subordination?
Economic Ageism
Anytime an economic apparatus exists
which is not specifically designed for equity it will oppress certain
groups in society. Throughout the world one of the groups most heavily
oppressed by nearly all economic systems is that of young people. In
relation to the work force, young people are violated in several ways.
At times they are excluded from the workplace; at other times they are
forced against their will to become a part of it. Moreover, at the other
end of the assembly line, primarily in the market system, capital*
exploits the paradoxical combination of young people's youthful
open-mindedness and their desire to assimilate.
In a system of centralized capital,
whereby wealth and power are manipulated by interests other than those
of society as a whole, the individual's needs are automatically excluded
from the concern of those coordinating the flow of capital. Whether an
economy is public but coordinatorist or "free" but private, young people
constitute the last group to have a say in the management process (again
regardless of how little voice most adults may have). Therefore, as they
are ignored by the rule makers, the economic activity of young people is
drastically restricted, perhaps more so than any other oppressed group.
Where politics collide with economics,
the state has substantial influence over the economic freedom of young
people. The system of compulsory education, whereby young people are
forced to work without pay, is similar to slavery, the product being the
student her or his self. Prior to the age of 16, people are neither
allowed to work at a regular job nor to leave school. Even after 16
adolescents are offered a limited spectrum of opportunities in the
workplace, almost never including work which could possibly be
considered empowering.
Although child labor laws were
originally created to protect young people from exploitation by business
and parents, and they undoubtedly serve that purpose today, in many
cases they also prevent adolescents from obtaining money legally and
without soliciting parents. And while family incomes vary, they are
hardly indicative of the amount of money children will be allowed.
Still, when children below age 16 are permitted to work, most commonly
in the family business or farm, their labor is heavily exploited by
parents who treat them as capital. This demonstrates the importance of a
substantially deep look at economic institutions as a whole in their
relationship to young people. Any time the capitalist system can
exploit, it will, and those with no recourse are by definition most
vulnerable.
Of course, there is a fundamental
difference between young people and adults where this matter is
concerned. Namely, young people are still socializing (or being
socialized) at a rapid pace, and thus schooling is of greater importance
than the production, through labor, of other goods. However, the fact
remains that the education apparatus is an industry, and the chief
laborers — not teachers or administrators but the students themselves —
are not rewarded for their labor in the same way workers in other
industries are. In this case, the students are not necessarily alienated
from the fruits of their labor (i.e., themselves), but are alienated
from the process by which production takes place.
While young people in the US are kept
from earning money, they are simultaneously bombarded by
specifically-geared commercialism and its introduction of "wants." Of
course, many young people see their wants fulfilled by parents who are
willing to appease the desires of large corporations as well as those
perceived interests newly instilled in their child (which isn't to say
that such children are not oppressed by capital simply because they can
satisfy their material desires). However, this process forms a
significant group of young people in whom wants are being commercially
conjured but who themselves cannot allocate the material manifestations
of those desires — that is, they simply can't afford all the things
they're told they desire.
Such is not meant to imply that society
should pity those young people who cannot afford the latest fashions and
the action figure or video game of the month, so long as they have
sufficient clothing and entertainment. Rather, we should recognize that
it is a primary purpose of private capitalist institutions to take
advantage of young people's culturally reinforced need to conform and
their search for identity, as well as their relatively free minds whose
desires and initiatives are malleable.
One of the market's most manipulative
and socially-destructive weapons is its elimination, via the
"entertainment industry," of the community and family relations which
previously raised children without heavy commercial interference. We
have seen the substitution of seemingly realistic film and television
for actual experience.
More subtly, the commercial aspects of
the modern market serve to manipulate or even eliminate the community
and family relation as well. A 30-second dousche advertisement on TV, in
which an imaginary daughter confronts her make-believe mother with
simulated feminine problems (e.g., the "not-so-fresh feeling"), actually
replaces an entire conversation between real-life mother and daughter.
Not only does the adolescent woman, as viewer, no longer think she needs
to discuss certain personal things with her mother, but now she even
knows the name of the product she is supposed to use.
The contradiction of want creation and
accompanying restrictions from the ability to satisfy those wants places
young people in a position which is even more blatantly discriminatory
than capital's obvious abuse of women and minority races. Yet, while the
Left adamantly supports the rights of those oppressed groups to have
access to satisfactory amounts of wealth and privilege, young people's
right to economic independence is almost nowhere advocated.
As young people are forced into
dependence on parents and (often) the paternal state, their own
potential is neglected and invalidated. Meanwhile, the state system
forces them into a subjective conditioning process while young people
are economically manipulated to, in all their social activity, serve the
interests of capitalists.
In an alternative economy, the
production of laborers could easily be taken into account as such, and
the producers rewarded for their efforts. Such an economy could separate
young people's consumption rights from those of their parents, thus
circumventing the problem of misappropriation of excessive or inadequate
amounts of goods to those young people. Furthermore, by eradicating
markets and capital, we could eliminate misguiding commercial pressures
and the inheritance of intemperate or deficient wealth.
Cultural Ageism
Taking
a look at communities in our society, generally identified by race,
ethnicity, heritage or religion, it is plain that the institutions
within
these communities oppress young people regularly. Particularly by
respecting coercive and invalidating traditions, whereby young people
are treated as less than whole, groups identified as communities
intimidate and violate their younger members.
Simply speaking, the very fact that
young people are so often born into communities which are identified as
somehow separate from others is oppressive. The idea that differences in
race, for example, are even acknowledged at all is oppressive, as it
creates an immediate identity crisis experienced early on in a child's
social development. That a child's skin pigmentation differs from
another's is one thing; that such characteristics are of importance in
life is another matter altogether, undoubtedly initiating a pattern of
heavy distress. Soon, as the child grows, the race factor becomes
accepted, and all the social strife it causes seems natural. But it
remains unnatural, a truth even radical*
theorists are still having trouble understanding. We teach young people
of color to take pride in their race, which may well serve to "empower"
them as individuals; but doing so also perpetuates the myth that race is
a rational concept in and of itself. Children do not understand the idea
of race until they are taught it's perceived importance by adult
society, a kind of informal indoctrination.
Then, of course, there is formal
indoctrination. Judaism and Christianity both contain official
structures by which young people are trained to accept dogmatic "truths"
which have relevance to them not because the concepts are rational
per se, but because they are hereditary. So we have a situation
where young people, once again, are born into oppressive systems,
inheriting them from parents who promote their relevance only because
those parents themselves were born into them.
As children are taught one religion (the
religion), they learn that they must live in accordance with the
dictates of that religion — the only acceptable manner. To do otherwise
would yield Hell or worse. Such manipulative power is highly coercive,
and it sees that choice is removed from the individual student, a quite
invalidating condition.
Moreover, many religions have formal
"rites of passage" by which young members are graduated into
"adulthood". This systematically segregates children from adults in an
official capacity, denying the younger indoctrinees the validity of
full-fledged membership in the culture, and forcing upon the adolescents
the responsibilities of religious maturity.
Community identification is also the
basis by which parents usually decide to perform circumcision on male
children. Circumcision is among the most painful acts any human will
likely experience, and the psychological trauma, not to mention physical
mutilation, has deep-rooted effects both psychologically and socially.
Indeed, those circumcised will later be offered positions as oppressors
when they might chastise a fellow young male's uncircumcised penis in a
high school locker room. Circumcision performed for social reasons is a
form of child abuse, based on cultural standards.
Many community-based programs, in which
young people's participation is often encouraged if not enforced by
parents and other adult community members, have oppressive aspects.
Organizations like the Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts, despite facilitating
some positive learning experiences, encouraging social activity and
introducing young people to diverse cultures, are noted for their narrow
conceptions of community and family, as well as their strict foundation
in Judeo-Christian doctrine. By forcing young members to wear uniforms,
salute the American flag and pray to the other god, these groups forego
their progressive potential to enter the business of mind-molding.
Formal scholastic sports, again despite
their positive potential, also serve to oppress many young people. By
restricting access to participation based on athletic ability, they
invalidate any young person who cannot "make the team." Further, among
those who are not excluded, a competitive mindset is encouraged. Winning
is rewarded while losing or even tying is punished, externally by adult
coaches and internally between team members. Instead of encouraging
teamwork and communitarian ethics, school athletic programs teach young
people to look out for themselves, regardless of who else might be hurt.
Many leftists tout the merits of
community identification, which no doubt exist. But the idea that
individuals should inherit such identifications rather than acquire them
by personal choice as they grow is absurd; that skin color or place of
birth or bloodline are determining factors of community identification
is a ridiculous and damaging injustice which must be further addressed.
Interpersonal Ageism
It
is in the kinship sphere of social activity that interpersonal relations
are formed. This sphere also houses the most direct oppressions of young
people, and it is where internalized oppression among and between young
people primarily takes place. Inside personal relationships, the young
person contends not only with oppressions from adult family members and
friends but also siblings and peers.
The most obvious forms of ageism are
perhaps those perpetrated by parents and legal guardians. Not unlike a
corporation or bureaucracy, the family unit is a top-down hierarchical
institution. Parents play the roles of absolute managers in a cell where
level of authority is determined by seniority.
Before we investigate the relationship
between parent and child, let us expose a few notions which set the
stage for active oppressions but are rarely identified as oppressions
themselves.
First, we must take into account the
reasons for which parents typically have children. While the reasons
themselves do not necessarily ensure oppression during the actual life
of a young person, they potentially promote oppressive attitudes and
behavior towards children by their parents. In this age, parents seldom
produce children for economic reasons (though this is not unheard of),
but child-bearing is nonetheless often carried out largely for the
selfish benefit of the parents themselves.
All too commonly, children are a source
of entertainment, toys with which "mature" adults can play and still be
respected by their peers. Children are also used by parents as cohesion
between themselves while their own partnership is elsewise failing.
Parents also intend to live vicariously through their children, having
their offspring achieve things they never could. And at risk of defying
politically correct normalcy, it is our assertion that single parents or
lesbian/gay couples often conceive or adopt children in order to make
social statements. That isn't to imply that such people are incapable of
being suitable parents, but rather that human life should not be
produced for use as political or social protest signs.
Of course, oppression is not
predetermined in all cases, and the reasons for which children are born
are not all for the advantage of the parent at the expense of the child.
But there is a significant relationship between parents' intentions,
which are often just to appease cultural expectations of adulthood, and
the methods by which families socialize their offspring.
Another component of parenthood which is
taken for granted but as such is no less oppressive is the notion that
children are wards of parents or guardians. "Ownership" of children is
determined simply by their physical origin or by legal documentation
which grants control to otherwise unrelated adults. Certainly children
need protection, and to some extent guidance, but that this should be
dictated by one or two or even three individuals is preposterous.
Pluralism is so often lacking in familial relationships, but this is
rarely connected to the narrow social and personal characteristics of
those raised in such an unpluralistic manner. Again, we clearly see
tradition conflicting with the actual needs of young people, depriving
them of diversity for the sake of parental self-satisfaction via the
idea that children exist as personal property.
In the debate over "family values,"
where is the voice of children, the very people most affected?
It is in the context of family that
gender and other roles are first accumulated. Children acquire their
sense of self in large part by mimicking the actions of their parents,
the rationalization coming much later in life. Hence, when parents
exhibit roles of dominance and submission based on sex, their children
will adopt similar roles as they grow socially. For instance, a young
female who repeatedly observes her mother depending on her father
financially, emotionally, etc., is likely to become dependent on males
herself, abandoning any potential for independence. Similarly, a male
who constantly witnesses his father's dominance, coercion and abuse of
his mother will probably espouse an overpowerful role in future
relationships with women. Role imposition is a type of informal
indoctrination.
While the gender roles delegated to
young people have been exposed and explored by feminists quite
sufficiently, it must be noted that gender assimilation is a process
controlled by parents and other adults, thus making them ageist as well
as sexist. Unlike adult women who fall pray to sexism, the sex roles of
girls are directly dictated by adults, those who society acknowledges
universally as having legitimate authority over young people.
Young people also experience ageism when
parents and other adults inflict feelings of guilt, shame and
worthlessness, causing psychological dysfunction, an indisputable
example of invalidation. Using guilt and manipulation as tools, parents
coerce young people into performing tasks which they themselves lack the
desire to carry out. When children are not acting on the dictates of
their parents, they are often called "unhelpful" or "no good,"
regardless of the fact that they are seldom offered or even shown the
benefits of equitable participation in the function of family.
Parents are hardly seen as friends by
their children, but rather as figures of authority. This is a loss for
both child and parent, depriving them of a potentially wonderful and
equally rewarding relationship based on trust, openness and
companionship. Instead of this ideal, mistrust of adults is learned as a
defense mechanism (often a necessary one). Coupled with the "generation
gap" (which is not at all inherent to familial relationships, but is
unique to those in which parents deny their children respect,
camaraderie and understanding), the actual basis of parent-child
relationship activity is oppression-ridden.
Sexual abuse between adults and
children, during which the elder takes advantage of the young person's
impressionability and lack of understanding, as well as physical size,
are acknowledged as widespread. But it must be stated that this is an
oppression founded strictly on age differences. By understanding
pedophilia, we can begin to recognize the extent to which adult
dominance over the young actually reaches. More importantly, knowing how
common such abuse actually is, we can realize how common and widespread
less extreme and less apparent abuses must be.
All forms of child abuse must be
recognized as something aside from ordinary violence. Besides being the
victim's first introduction to cruelty, abuse causes children to inherit
a pattern of violence, prompting them to act similarly towards their
peers and, in adulthood, towards their own children. Even more directly
than most oppressive activities, child abuse has been clinically proven
to be self-perpetuating.
Anyone who believes parents and
guardians possess legitimate authority over "their" children must either
overlook the severity and frequency of these violations or deem them
acceptable. The only remedy for this dynamic, which has likely existed
throughout human history, is the elimination of parental authority. The
role of parent as dictator must be replaced by nurturer. With humans,
nurturing consists mainly of oversight, with guidance and control
limited to a minimum.
All known social oppressions can be
shown to possess a phenomenal characteristic known as "internalized
oppression" whereby members of the oppressed group actually oppress each
other in unwitting service to their interested oppressors. The internal
self-destructive activities of the black community are among the most
obvious examples of this. Also, the self-perpetuation of dependent and
submissive activity among women, through defining each other by their
relationships to men, is yet another example of internalized oppression.
Among young people, there are several
such examples. Segregated almost entirely from valuable interaction with
adults, much socialization takes place strictly between and among groups
of children — yet they mirror relationships indicative of adult society.
Young people consistently form cliques at school, practicing exclusion
and limiting their own exposure to variety. They invalidate and even
abuse each other verbally, physically and sexually based on racist,
classist and sexist assumptions. Of late, it has also been noted that
the most recent generation of young people insists on invalidating
achievers in the classroom. Low scholastic achievement is often rewarded
with acceptance while high achievement is penalized by exclusion. All
these activities and many more are carried out solely based on
association by age.
Now That We Know...
This
indictment of adult society, the first part to a manifesto of sorts, is
by no means complete. Many volumes could (and hopefully will) be written
on these matters. There is much more to discuss and investigate
regarding ageism in theory and practice. For now, identifying the most
glaring applications and most basic theories will have to suffice.
Of course, this essay wouldn't have been
written had its authors not honestly believed there was hope for change
and progress. If we can agree to acknowledge the existence of ageism as
a far-reaching, powerful and thus significant oppression, we can perhaps
initiate discourse on the liberation of young people, an act equal in
importance to the liberation of all other oppressed groups.
Let's face it: young people are the
future; they always have been. It is the values and perceptions
instilled in young people which will carry over into adult life and
dominate social activity therein.
One idea is that adults should instill
as few values and perspectives as possible, thus freeing the "nature of
youth" to develop on its own in a free manner of socialization, in the
absence of indoctrination and social engineering. Already the topic of
discussion and debate in certain, limited forums, this idea has become
known as "youthism," whereby the free-spirits, open minds, curiosities
and reasoning capacities, along with the desire for freedom, so often
found in our young before they are extensively engineered by the
dominant forces of society, can be nurtured not by dictators or even
leaders but by free association. Indeed, we are all born anarchists,
defiant to irrational oppressions, but are then molded by social forces
largely beyond our control.
What would happen if these dominant
forces never were allowed to dig their claws into the minds and hearts
of our young? Would children reach the conclusions that classism,
sexism, authoritarianism, racism, etc. are rational and just on their
own accord? Is it possible that they might never recognize that power
should be inequitably distributed among individuals and groups?
Might we find that the corruption of
adults begins with the corruption of children, a reciprocal and indeed
cyclical process? And might we see that indeed the nurturing process,
delicate yet vital, is in dire need of revolution?
Revolution Kid Style
Understanding Adultocracy
Young children display an outstanding
propensity to resist most oppressions. While a child can be easily
convinced that strawberry milk comes from a pink cow, once s/he learns
that there is no such animal, s/he will immediately discard the
illusion. However, a child cannot be convinced that such absurdities as
war and money make sense. They are irrational phenomena, the
comprehension of which comes not with "maturity" in the sense that we
know it, but through indoctrination and conditioning.
We are conditioned as children—through
interaction in various types of relationships with adults—to accept the
unacceptable conditions of our own limitations and submit to authority
which exists only because we believe in it. Most four year-old children
who haven't been exposed to massive doses of television cannot accept
the concept of war. You can tell such a child, when asked why war
exists, that war just is. The child will certainly not accept
this sort of answer, as we all know from experience; children require
explanations. So you can explain the ideas of patriarchy, capital, power
and authority. Again, the child will not understand your explanation.
This is not because s/he does not possess the ability to comprehend
simple theories, but rather because the concept itself does not make
sense. "How do these people get this `capital,' this `power'?" the child
will ask. Well, how do they? It doesn't make sense to the child because
s/he has not yet been conditioned by adults and other children to accept
the absurd. Once such conditioning, known as the maturation process, has
taken hold, young people become increasingly susceptible to irrational
concepts, assumptions and beliefs.
The greatest defense against oppression,
then, is that possessed by all at birth, but eroded and repressed as we
age. It is our youth which best protects us from the imposition
of others' will, and it is youth which is necessarily destroyed
by all oppressive apparatuses before we can be successfully subjugated
by them. Youth is not necessarily possessed only by those who are
young in age. It is a state of mind which can be attained by anyone, was
once possessed by everyone, but is rarely present in anyone beyond
adolescence.
The very process of becoming an adult
entails the imposition of compromise and conformity. The state of mature
adulthood as currently defined by society is preposterous and
detrimental. Adults are violent towards each other, they rule each other
and make demands upon their peers. Worst of all, they introduce these
and other harmful activities to young people who will then practice them
throughout their lives.
Society imposes "norms" of "success" and
"maturity" on adults in a manner that is perhaps more disgusting than
those applied to young people. By defining and regulating the
qualifications "mature" persons are expected to meet, adult society
harshly oppresses its members. With the eradication of youth comes
vulnerability to complete coercion by the state, by capital, and by
community and kin.
The stabilization of this norm is
carried out rather simply as a continuation of ageism, this time used to
oppress adults themselves. In order to maintain an absence of youth in
"mature" members of society, similar techniques as those performed to
oppress young people are necessary. All spheres of life continue to
oppress adults in order to force their adherence to the status quo.
Competition, which is first taught to
children, causes adults to evaluate themselves in comparison to others
based on societal standards rather than true personal beliefs. Like war,
capital, religion, property, bigotry and other violent institutions, the
idea of competition is manufactured by adult society for purposes of
utility. All of these things regulate the many components of society,
serving "progress" efficiently and sustaining the positions of elites at
the expense of the many.
The standards enforced on adults in
modern society include the maintenance of a "secure" family life as well
as economic and social "independence" (from extended family and
government, anyway; adult society does not recognize subservience
to the managers of the capitalist system as dependence). "Mature"
adults are also expected to possess some kind of diploma as proof of
their intellectual and conformist qualifications.
The concept of gender roles was first
devised by adults. Gender oppression is demonstrated to and practiced on
young people by adults. Were it not for adults' teaching of gender
inequity to young people, such imbalance would never be perpetuated, it
not being inherent to the species. Men are assigned the role of
provider, encouraged to dominate the wife and children, and expected to
manage the family's affairs. The man at least pretends to be the most
informed member of the nuclear family, regardless of his actual
understanding of anything. At the same time, the woman's role is to
remain attractive (to appease her keeper) and subservient, but also rule
over the children. Her input is incidental at best in the real process
of dominating family matters.
Adults are expected to act "grown up."
As their youth has been all but entirely eradicated, this is not a very
high expectation. Being "grown up" means discarding all curiosity,
creativity and sense of adventure. At least, these things are redefined
to meet acceptable norms. For instance, the stock market, lottery and
bridge matches become "adventuresome," however inconsistent with
youthful activities. Once the adult accepts her/his loss of youth, the
concept of possessing potential and opportunity begins to evaporate,
except as defined by the Establishment, in quantitative, commodified
terms of "career" and "family" and "community" and so on. No longer is
the adult a hopeful person; s/he is now limited and confined to a
specific role and a predetermined future.
In the workplace, the ominous practice
of routinization picks up where schooling left off, restricting the
lives of adults. The job becomes a place where adults fulfill
requirements presented to them, day in and day out. Rarely are they
allowed to stray from the very specific course of self degradation and
counterproductivity which is commonly referred to as a career.
Home and family life become chores for
the adult. Having to manage the formal economic aspects of family
leadership is an invalidating experience, especially given that
capitalists and the state leave little room for independent economic
thought and activity. Since society does not promote participatory
family structures, decisions and coordination are conducted by the
parents, usually the father. Having to make authoritative decisions, as
patriarchal figures often perceive their functions, is oppressive
because it isolates the ruler from his/her charges and casts
relationship roles as governor and governed rather than as companions.
Of course, this is not nearly as oppressive as having decisions made
for you, which is the totality of the child's experience.
In their personal and private activity,
adults are affected by ageism as their recreational pastimes are bogged
down by discouragement of actual participation. Passive observation
becomes the primary means by which adults are encouraged to engage in
entertainment. Sitting on bleachers replaces playing on a field;
television replaces reading; pornography replaces sexual encounters,
etc.
In the political sphere, adults begin to
accept their alienation from being able to actively partake in the
decision-making processes which govern their lives. It becomes clear
that, due to control of their information sources and governmental
"representation" by forces outside their reach, people are hardly
capable of directing their own lives. And hence the completion of the
cycle of authority and oppression, as the oppressed adults then turn to
young people to carry out the pattern formed hundreds of generations
ago.
Apathetic and passive, adults who have
had their youth eroded by ageism become disenchanted with life in
general. Without diversity and challenging experiences, life becomes
dull, and they lose their youthful zest for it. With their loss of
interest in life, adults begin to lose their own identity, and once
someone has become ignorant of her/his own identity, ignorance itself
becomes a dominant characteristic.
Youth and Idealism
The one threat those presently in power
fear most seriously of all is the prospect that they will cease to be
taken seriously. If all of the insane constructs which the Establishment
has cooked up over the centuries, ranging from the dominance of male
over female to government over subjects to boss over workers and so on,
were to be deemed as ridiculous as they truly are and replaced with a
sensible, radical ideal of freedom, solidarity, community, equity,
compassion, diversity and peace, the gig would be up. That would be the
end of the Establishment as we know it, the entirety of its authority
rooted in our perceptions of its legitimacy. Once we deem those
presently in power unworthy of our subservience, the beliefs which they
instill in themselves and us will crumble, and so will the dynamics of
systemic oppression.
Psychologists have identified a peculiar
condition with which most children, many adolescents and even a few
adults seem to be afflicted. Known as infantile omnipotence, it leads
victims to perceive themselves as somewhat invincible, unaware of their
own limitations, unable to acknowledge that some things remain
impossible no matter how hard one sets one's mind to their achievement.
When people don't understand what they
cannot do, they often end up doing those things. Most of what we're
supposed to understand as impossible has to do with limitations set upon
us by social forces. Sure, if you jump out of a window, you aren't going
to fly, because it is impossible to defy gravity. But what about
making social change? When people feel like they can radically change
the world, that's very dangerous to those who are quite happy with it
the way things are. It is a threat. Which is exactly why, at a very
early age, we begin hearing that one, universal invalidation—in English,
it goes something like this: "That's just the way things are. (Now go
play with your toys.)" This is the answer to all the questions that
can't be answered in a simple manner because their standard adult
answers are too irrational to be explained to a child, to someone who
doesn't have preconceived notions of how easily one must accept
absurdity in everyday life. Mommy, why do white people treat black
people like dirt? Daddy, why do you have to work so much while your boss
goes on vacation all the time? Mommy, why do you curse at me and hit me?
That's just the way things are, Dear.
Kids don't believe in settling for
things "the way they are." Kids think they can do anything. They feel
powerful and valid. So adults and other kids invalidate them regularly.
Do kids not grow up to change the world because the world in fact is
unchangeable? or is it because they have been convinced of their
impotency by a rigorous process of daily, hourly invalidations? After
all the invalidations we suffer as children, and there are many more
waiting in adulthood just in case some feelings of potency still linger
within us, it's amazing anyone does anything nonconformist at all. We
are taught that we are useful in one way and one way only: as servants
to the Establishment and its order.
Yet some of us refuse to play the
assigned roles. Some of us resist at any cost. We tend to choose one of
three paths of resistance. Many of us turn to rebellion without praxis*,
committing crimes or being otherwise obnoxious pests. Others among us
"drop out" of life for as long as we can stand total alienation from a
self-alienated society. But a few of us actually enter a life of
conscious, focused resistance. We attempt to subvert the status quo
rather than simply annoy or avoid it. We attack it where possible and
build alternatives to it, making our resistance stronger and stronger as
time goes on. Eventually, though, enough time passes that we cease to be
"young people"; this also happens to be the point at which we surrender
or suppress the last vestiges of our youth, the time when we
"sell out."
Can it be that, at some certain age, be
it 21 or 25 or 30, we cease to be young and enter a phase of life
characterized by realism, narcissism and pessimism? Can it be that this
is natural; that it is somehow genetically predetermined?
I think not. If you know any "adults"
who do not fit well into the above description—and doubtless you do—then
you either think they are genetic mutants; or, more probably,
that they have gone through a social process which has made them
so. Which would mean that those adults who have gone from being "cool"
as kids to being jerks as grown-ups must too have changed via a social
process not unlike the one we've detailed. There probably are not
oppressor genes in human beings, though we cannot say for sure.
What is to be Liberated?
Some of us resist, at any cost, the
transition from victim to victimizer. Some would call this a transition
from oppressed to oppressor, but as I've demonstrated, becoming a
"mature adult" in society's eyes and being forced to live like one is
quite oppressive in and of itself. Sure, as an adult you can victimize
children via ageism; you can have power over the powerless. But that's
really a pretty pathetic type of power, and I don't think it balances
out in the end once we consider what we lose when we lose our youth:
spontaneity, free spirit, curiosity, playfulness, and so on—the list of
losses is really quite great. And it's not as though adults have much
authentic self-determination or autonomy of which to speak. Sure, they
have more legal rights, and more leeway in many aspects of life. But
becoming an adult does not mean becoming free.
We don't "age out" of being oppressed.
If we did, then there would be no reason to have a youth liberation
movement; we could wait to be liberated by the natural process of
"growing up." We'd just need a youth rights movement, one which
advocates civil protections for young people.
This denotes a very important point, one
vital to comprehending how we should approach our activism around youth
issues. Liberation is profoundly different from rights advocacy. It is
much more complicated and far less tangible. But the benefits of
liberation are also greater than those of civil rights. Surely, we will
need to fight for an entirely different treatment of young people in
this society. As Sara Zia Ebrahimi and I outlined in "Young and
Oppressed," the abuse, coercion, deprivation, indoctrination and
invalidation suffered by young people, based on their age alone, is
tremendous and reprehensible. It needs to be stopped.
But we also need to destroy the
perspective which recognizes age as a legitimate basis for
discrimination between classes of people. The adult/child dichotomy is
the foundation upon which ageism, and thus a form of social engineering,
exists. In order to oppress systematically, oppressors must devise a
relatively clear differential between themselves and the oppressed. That
is, they must create a class or category of people (or animals) whom
they can oppress. In any oppressive dynamic, there must be a distinct
"us"-and-"them" dichotomy. There must be a consciousness among
oppressors that they are in the dominant class; but, from the
oppressors' standpoint, there shouldn't be any such understanding among
the oppressed. This is very important. Not only must the oppressed be
kept alienated from their oppressors, but they must also be kept
alienated from one another, lest they identify, expose and attempt to
abolish the dichotomy.
Alienation takes many forms, though. One
can be near totally alienated from someone with whom one has direct
contact on a daily basis. Without consciousness of the class system
under which one lives, there is no opportunity for class unity. So
social oppressions must be disguised as natural
relationships. People of color must be convinced of the inevitability of
their oppression; women must be convinced of the unavoidability of their
oppression; workers must be convinced of the sanity of the economic
system which allows them to be oppressed by owners; children must be
convinced of the naturalness of their oppression. Or, whenever possible,
these oppressed classes must be convinced that they are not oppressed
at all. The socially constructed dichotomies which differentiate
between man and woman, person of color and white, proletarian*
and owner, child and adult—all of these must be rationalized by
oppressors and internalized by the oppressed.
So what happens when the oppressed begin
to challenge the absurd notions which have held them down, as classes,
for centuries? What happens when some among the oppressed begin
agitating to raise consciousness of the dynamic between their class and
the oppressors? When these things happen, the dichotomies, not one of
them tangible or defensible, begin the slow process of ideological
decay. The dogmas upon which sexism, racism, economic classism,
speciesism and ageism rely are shown to be absurd; and, theoretically,
at least, revolution and liberation ensue. But without class
consciousness, there can be no solidarity among the oppressed.
Along with a recognition of the false
dichotomy between oppressor and oppressed, class consciousness delves
into a comprehension of the institutional nature of oppression. There is
a conflict between classes, not between agents. That is to say,
oppressions manifest themselves in the actions of victimizers towards
their victims, but the real antagonisms exist between the notions of
dichotomies, of dominance and submission, rule and ruled. It is through
this radical awareness that women come to see the enemy not as men but
as patriarchy, an ideology; people of color recognize that whiteness,
rather than whites, is the worthy adversary; workers learn to fight
capital instead of capitalists, and so on.
Likewise, young people must learn that
adults are not what is to be fought. Instead, the ideological construct
that is adultocracy must be contended with.
All of this may seem kind of wishy washy
liberal, as though I am trying to exonerate or encourage pity upon
victimizers by saying that they, too, are oppressed. While we must
certainly recognize the conditions that place victimizers in positions
of power, that doesn't mean the strategy for liberation is to appeal to
them, as oppressed people, and hope that they will seek liberation from
their roles and thus free the rest of us from racism, sexism, ageism,
etc. I entertain no such pipe dreams.
But what I do want to highlight is the
absolute necessity of the institutional approach to the liberation
struggle. When we attack, we must attack the ideologies and systems
which harbor oppressions. When we create, we must create total
alternatives which in no way resemble those ideologies and systems which
have oppressed both victim and victimizer. We mustn't limit ourselves to
defense against abuse, coercion, deprivation, indoctrination and
invalidation; we must destroy that which now facilitates these horrors
and build a society in which radically different perspectives are
fostered.
For the youth liberation movement,
adultocracy is the chief adversary. Its agents, we must remember, are
not only adults but also other young people who have internalized
notions of the adult/child dichotomy and thus perpetuate disruption of
class consciousness. In other words, we are all oppressors of one
kind or another. This primarily takes the form of invalidation. How
often do we see kids who feel worthless because they are kids? And who
abuse those kids who do not feel worthless as such? If we did not
oppress ourselves so efficiently, we would be able to rise up and fight
in unity. But alas, we cannot, because we are too busy incorporating
ageism into our daily lives.
One of the beautiful aspects of a
movement for youth liberation is what it is trying to liberate: youth.
Youth liberation, or kid liberation, is not to be confused with
"children's liberation" or "kids' liberation." There is a chasmic
difference. When what we are trying to liberate is a certain group of
people, be it women or people of color or children, the implication is
that we think the primary victims of a given oppression are the sole
subjects of the liberation process. It ignores the fact that many of
those typically identified in the oppressor class are also in need and
desirous of liberation.
Cannot men be oppressed by patriarchy?
And cannot adults be oppressed by adultocracy?
What happens to a young man who does not
see the "value" of being viewed as a "man" in the eyes of society? If he
fails to excel at or even participate in sports? or if he is not large
and muscular? or if he does not objectify and victimize women? He is
chastised, at best, terrorized at worst, by other men of all ages. He is
spit upon, looked down upon. He is physically and verbally abused more
so than perhaps most women will ever be—all based on his gender. Young
women who are not good at sports are not so treated because of it. (They
are, of course, mistreated based on the mere fact that they have vaginas
instead of penises).
And what of an adult who acts "childish"
among other adults? One who dresses "inappropriately," who speaks his
mind openly, who is idealistic, impulsive, spontaneous? He too is
chastised. Of children, this is expected. When they act this way, it's
acceptable, even adorable. But for an adult to act this wayto act
liberated!—is blasphemy. No, indeed, the process of age oppression,
often disguised as "maturation," ensures that we are bereft of all those
aspects of youth which are beautiful, liberated.
The process of liberating youth is just
that. We aren't liberating people, we are freeing the spirit of
youth. We aren't liberating kids, we are freeing what it is to be
a kid.
Youthism is the praxis of youth
liberation. It suggests that we are all born liberated, rejecting all
forms of authority. The adult world has no patience with this, and with
good cause: They don't wait until we are able to communicate and reason
before trying to instill in us subservience and break our collective and
individual wills—this because once we are old enough to reason, we can
see through inherently transparent notions of authority with great ease.
In other words, we must be trained from a very young age to accept the
unacceptable, to submit to authority, to feel weak in the face of power.
This isn't done through open, rational dialog, it's done, at first, by
overbearing force. The adult world, as a matter of its own survival,
must break us lest we break it.
The process of social engineering in our
society is dramatic and far-reaching. To underestimate or oversimplify
it's capacities is to sell out an entire movement for authentic
liberation. Only a radical critique of social life—one which seeks to
eradicate oppression at its roots—will lead to lasting change. We must
always trace oppression all the way to its sources.
Patriarchy and Adultocracy
It is to the advantage of youth
liberation activists that the feminist movement has, for centuries now,
been immersed in developing a critical understanding of the dynamics of
gender-based oppression. There are so many similarities between sexism
and ageism, not only in dynamics but in manifestation, that an
understanding of radical feminism is imperative to an understanding of
youthism. The parallels between youth liberation and sexual liberation
are also quite staggering, as I hope to demonstrate here.
But with this benefit come some
liabilities. The first risk of drawing such broad parallels between
sexism and ageism is mistaking them as derivatives of the same
oppressive source: patriarchy. What feminists have identified as the
force behind sexism is valid indeed; but it is in many ways different
from the root of age oppression.
Secondly, we must be aware of the
ideological and strategical pitfalls in which a substantial portion of
the feminist movement has wound up. The biggest of these is
liberalization, and along with it a commodified, co-opted perspective,
bereft of radicalism, which has rendered large segments of feminism
susceptible to accommodation* by the Establishment.
A major problem with most feminist theory is its dependence upon false
dichotomies, created in order to render theory and practice of feminism
easy to digest. Unfortunately, it is only in the more complicated
aspects of both radical feminist and youthist theory that we find the
keys to liberation.
Modern radical social theory, somewhat
more complex but far less dogmatic than its classical predecessors,
recognizes that there are four spheres of social life, all
interconnected. Those spheres are, briefly: political, where
organizational and governmental relationships are housed, the dynamic
being authority; economic, where people and institutions relate
to the means of production and consumption; community, defined by
heritage, race, religion, ethnicity, birthplace, and so on; and
kinship, consisting of familial, sexual and interpersonal
relationships. While each of these spheres can be identified and even
studied in abstraction from the others, radical social theory can only
be understood if one recognizes them in context of all others, none more
important than any. A perspective which incorporates an all-encompassing
comprehension of these spheres, separately and as a whole, has been
called complementary holism.*
It is important to note that any sphere
of social relationships can be identified as the primary home to a
certain oppression or oppressions. For instance, it is in the political
sphere that we find statism, the oppression of people by government; and
in the economic sphere, classism, or the oppression of the working class
by the owning class, is evident; in the community sphere, we find racism
in all its forms.
It is with the kinship sphere that we
concern ourselves most for purposes of this essay. There we find the
institutions of both family and sex. One might think that patriarchy,
which has been defined until now as the source of both gender- and
age-based oppressions, is the dominant beast here, victimizing both
women and children. But patriarchy does not oppress children as
children (it instead oppresses them as individual girls and boys).
The age-based oppression of children can be traced elsewhere.
Before we go there, let's define some
terms. First of all, what the hell is "patriarchy"? In a general sense,
patriarchy is the ideological/conceptual institution which defines
"masculinity" and "femininity," placing the former in a dominant
position over the latter, both theoretically and practically. Those
characteristics termed "masculine" by patriarchy include strength of
will, aggressiveness, invulnerability and emotional detachment.
"Feminine" characteristics include weakness, passivity, vulnerability
and emotionalism. In each case, we see that some characteristics are
positive (desirable) and others are not.
It is on this basis that a patriarchal
society socially engineers its members to assimilate to certain roles
defined either by femininity or masculinity. Such a society takes
advantage of anatomical sex difference, the possession of a penis or a
vagina, to divide and dichotomize. Those with penises will assimilate to
masculinity, those "without" will assimilate to femininity. Naturally,
those who socially acquire dominant characteristics will, in turn, be
dominant.
Now I am going to do something that has
never been done before (to my knowledge): I am going to differentiate
between gender-based patriarchy and the age-based ideology I call
adultocracy. In a general sense, adultocracy is the
ideological/conceptual institution which defines "maturity" and
"immaturity," placing the former in a dominant position over the latter,
both theoretically and practically. Those characteristics termed
"mature" by adultocracy include responsibility, wisdom, realism,
constraint and inhibition. "Immature" characteristics include
irresponsibility, ignorance, idealism, spontaneity and
free-spiritedness. In each case, we see that some of the characteristics
are positive (desirable) while others are not.
It is on this basis that adultocratic
society socially engineers its members to certain roles defined in terms
of maturity. Children are supposed to be irresponsible, ignorant,
spontaneous, free-spirited, etc, while adults are expected to be
responsible, wise, constrained and inhibited.
Both patriarchy and adultocracy take
advantage of what appear to be natural or inherent differences in sex
and age respectively. In neither situation, however, is it the case that
the characteristics so applied to the different classifications are
inherent. As long as there is a strong willed woman or a weak-willed
man, a responsible child or an irresponsible adult, and these are not
called mutations, we must admit that these are socially-determined
characteristics. In most cases, the roles are predetermined and expected
of us such to manipulate us into fulfilling them.
It is the case, however, that men,
having been encouraged to assimilate to patriarchal characteristics,
will be the primary agents of patriarchy, via sexism; just as adults,
assimilated to adultocracy, will be the primary perpetrators of ageism.
Because age is a temporary, transitional
variable, understanding ageism is more complicated than understanding
sexism. First of all, those in the typically oppressed class (children)
will become members of the primary oppressor class (adults); but then
they will graduate, again, into the realm of the oppressed when they
become elderly (though the oppression of old folks exposes new dynamics
into which I cannot delve at this juncture).
Another unique feature of ageism is that
part of the oppression process seeks to transform victims from one class
to another, ie child to adult. During this procedure, all that is
"immature" and positive is eradicated, and all that is "mature" and
negative is enforced. At the same time they are stripped of their
spontaneity and free-spiritedness, young adults are imposed upon with
awkward notions of responsibility and wisdom. "Responsibility," in
adultocratic terms, means accepting one's place in the rest of the
social scheme (economic class, race, gender, etc). "Wisdom" means
knowing that everything is as it is supposed to be. "Realism" means
understanding that the world sucks but you must make the best of it.
When the child is "ignorant," idealistic and irresponsible, s/he resists
role imposition and believes s/he can turn the world upside down! There
is a strong correlation between the fact that idealism is engineered out
of us and the fact that the world has yet to be turned on its head.
Feminism, Anarchism and Youthism
One of the pitfalls the feminist
movement has encountered can be traced to its reliance upon petitioning
authority to make top-down changes on behalf of women. Beginning in the
last century, when the main objective of feminist agitation was women's
suffrage, the focus on achieving more power within an inherently corrupt
system set the stage on which non-radical feminism would play for a long
time to come. This is analogous to the focus on achieving more power
within the corporate system, a primary goal of the modern feminist
movement.
The problem with this sort of objective
is that it renders entire movements susceptible to co-optation*
and recuperation. It is often possible to achieve goals which do not
challenge the Establishment structurally simply because the system is
able to recuperate, even strengthen itself (by saving face) as a result
of granting reforms to agitators.
This is not to say that "gains" made by
leftist movements are not worthy of recognition by radicals simply
because they don't strike death blows to the system. Indeed, many of the
non-revolutionary achievements of the past century's struggles have
provided valuable space in which activists can work for more radical
(fundamental) change.
Nevertheless, we must understand the
effect channeling our energy towards reforms will have on our movements.
When the authorities are our focus, such as is the case when we petition
government for redress of grievances, we must recognize that we are not
striking at the root of our problem. When feminism agitates for women's
civil rights, it is not attacking patriarchy in any fundamental way —
instead it is attacking patriarchal manifestations in government. This
is the strategy of indirect action: convincing someone else to make
changes for you.
Only a strategy of direct action, which
tears down oppressive constructs while simultaneously creating
alternative institutional foundations, will lead to authentic
liberation. Only when the government and business sector have not had a
hand in the granting of "freedoms" will we know for sure that we
have appropriated them directly for ourselves.
A significant portion of the new youth
movement has named young people's suffrage (voting rights) as a major
objective. It would seem to be the case that when we have more control
over the government we have more control over our political lives and
thus more control over life generally. But this is sadly not the case.
First of all, I don't know to what we'd
lower the voting age, but it wouldn't be 4, because that would amount to
a child walking into the ballot booth and pulling whatever lever daddy
told him or her to before hand. I will generalize so far as to say that
most young children, probably pre-junior high, are incapable of making a
decision of that nature.
Then again, every human being is
inherently incapable of making that decision. Voting is a
socially-ingrained and -imposed pathology. The choice is absent,
predetermined by powers far from popular accessibility. But the act is
portrayed as an expression of freedom.
Emma Goldman brilliantly wrote, on
women's suffrage, that "suffrage is an evil, that it has only helped to
enslave people, that it has but closed their eyes that they may not see
how craftily they were made to submit. [...Woman] can give suffrage no
new quality, nor can she receive anything from it that will enhance her
own quality. Her development, her freedom, her independence, must come
from and through herself. [...] Only that, and not the ballot, will set
woman free, will make her a force hitherto unknown in the world, a force
for real love, for peace, for harmony; a force of divine fire, of
life-giving; a creator of free men and women."
The same can be said of children.
Intelligently, Goldman modified some of her views later on. The vote
can help woman achieve the space needed to "enhance her own
quality" "from and through herself." Woman and child can clearly do this
much more easily when they are not tied down to a bed or a desk, trapped
in a house or a classroom. And perhaps the vote can open possibilities
for freedom to children. But it can't provide that freedom.
Suffrage is not liberation per se.
All in all, I do not think it's worth
the effort. Suffrage is much, much more effective, it being something
which can be easily accommodated by the system, as Goldman recognized a
century ago, as a way to provide the illusion of real, tangible freedom,
essentially in commodity form. You fight for the vote, not for freedom.
VOTE = FREEDOM is a misnomer, a false premise.
But isn't it true that because women
have the vote, they have been able to make great strides towards
liberation? No, women have used political pressure within the
governmental process to achieve civil rights—but we cannot mistake civil
rights for liberation. Rights are privileges granted by some authority
on high, be it God or the state. If you have a list of rights, then rest
assured that those are all of your rights. Rights are what
authorities use to pacify otherwise restless people—if the people want
it and it can't radically affect change within the system, then grant it
to them. Rights, such as freedom of speech and assembly, can be
exploited in radical ways. But the fact that the US Bill of Rights
specifically includes the privilege of petitioning government for
"redress of grievances" is significant. By that statement, those in
power have created for us the easiest path for our movements to follow:
the focus on begging the government to make change for us. But
real liberation can only come from us. We don't have the right to
liberation, and we never will.
Anarchism is the belief that people, as
intelligent, social creatures, are capable of organizing their affairs
in such a manner as to include equality and cooperation instead of
hierarchy, authority or any form of coercion. Anarchism denies neither
structure nor order, and it is not an invitation to chaos. Anarchy, the
condition of anarchism realized, is one in which mutual aid and
cooperation replace competition, where plenty replaces contrived
scarcity, where communication replaces atomization and alienation, where
love replaces violence.
Still, anarchy is not just something of
the future, it is something of the past and present as well. Anarchy is
not something we need to create so much as it is something we need to
realize! We are all, by nature, able to be anarchistic. Throughout
history, humans have organized small portions of their affairs in an
anarchistic fashion, more often than not completely without
consciousness of doing so. Whenever we share freely, on any scale,
asking in return only what others are willing to offer, we are being
anarchistic. Anarchy is all around us, it is inside of us; we merely
need to accept it, to embrace it, to expand it into every realm of our
existence, every thread of our lives' fabric.
But anarchism does not ignore the
contradictions which make "merely" accepting and embracing anarchy quite
difficult in real life. Instead, it offers a thorough critique of the
society and institutions thereof which have so devastatingly damaged us,
as a people—to the point that true peace and liberty (ie, anarchy) seem
like impossibilities not worth fighting for. Or, almost as bad, dominant
social institutions have created an Establishment so efficient that it
channels earnest desires for liberation into commodified demands for
such goals as civil rights and reforms. That society anarchism seeks to
destroy and replace by redefining the field on which the game of social
life is played. No longer will our oppressors choose the turf of our
struggle.
Anarchism is not about throwing
molotov cocktails, wearing circle-A's on our jackets, green hair, spiked
wristbands, eyebrow rings and tattoos. It is, very much, about the
self—but anarchy sees personal liberation only as the end, the ultimate
goal, with social liberation as an essential part of the process. In
other words, in order to free oneself, one must free all of society
and nature. In the process of working towards social liberation,
however, we must all simultaneously endeavor to liberate ourselves on a
personal level. Yes, this is a catch-22 of sorts; but it is the most
beautiful one I have ever encountered.
Anarchism is about revolution. It
is about living revolution. For the anarchist, revolution is a
process. We must make now, of the present, what we desire for the
future. The revolution is not some utopian society of the future, it
is the very process of making change in a radical manner. The
revolutionary process is the end in and of itself!
Anarchists have somewhat unique
perspectives on every thing from social theory to philosophy to
strategies and tactics for social change. Anarchism is the most
decidedly radical school of revolutionary thought. It is also the only
politically libertarian praxis (combination of theory and practice),
because it calls for the abolition of government as we know it and its
replacement with small-scale, decentralized, nonhierarchical,
personalized, directly democratic and consensual forms of political
institutions. Anarchists do not believe governments can be "improved" so
long as they maintain authority over the people.
One area where anarchism differs from
other schools of revolutionary thought is in its perspective on
liberation. Anarchism insists that there is no liberation except for
self-liberation; that people cannot be liberated by others, only by
themselves. Where variants on marxism and other authoritarian ideologies
insist that an elite "vanguard," a relatively small group of enlightened
intellectuals, can and must liberate the "masses" on their behalf,
anarchism rejects this notion outright.
In other words, the revolution must be
made by the people as a whole, not for them by some small
band of individuals who consider themselves advanced. Therefore, the
anarchist project is to help people empower and educate themselves so
they can become revolutionists.
And this, finally, is where youth
liberation comes in. We know that ageism, or the oppression of young
people based on their age, is a major factor in the perpetuation of all
oppression in our society. Ageism, like other oppressions, aids the
process of social engineering which the Establishment uses to transform
naturally spontaneous, thoughtful individuals into veritable cogs.
Understanding ageism as a vital component of oppression, the question
becomes: How do we counter this force? How do we liberate people from
the process of social engineering?
Unfortunately, we cannot liberate
others, even though third parties may oppress them and us alike. We can
only liberate ourselves as individuals. But not alone. It is important
to keep in mind that in isolation we are virtually helpless in the face
of ageism and all other oppressive dynamics. Only when we join together
with others in our class (young people) can we begin to counter systemic
ageism.
Young people will not be liberated until
society undergoes a process of total revolution. There will be no mass
liberation of children and adolescents until there is liberation for all
from the institutional apparatus which systematically manages their
collective oppression. As we have seen in previous sections of this
pamphlet, adultocracy, which fosters ageism, is very much a part of the
institutional fabric that is Amerikan society. It relies on capital, the
state, patriarchy, whiteness, religion, et al, and the reliance is
interdependent. If we acknowledge the staggering amounts of power behind
these other oppressive systems, and realize that they are indeed
dependent upon ageism for the very lifeblood of their existence, then we
must accept as true the fact that only radical changes in all
these structures, and the abolition of their respective (and
complementary) ideologies will yield freedom for young people.
It must also be noted out front that
adults will never be able to liberate children. Only children can
liberate themselves, just as it is the case that people of color, women
and proletarians must liberate themselves. Where and whenever
called upon to do so, privileged people (ie, adults) can and should lend
whatever help is needed by young people.
Furthermore, we must understand that
under the conditions of our current society, adults are in a position of
privilege over young people. They benefit from the current social
arrangements. For this reason, they will be hesitant at best, and
reactionary at worst, in response to demands for increased
self-determination by kids. A truly radical approach to the empowerment
of young people will necessarily rely on a simultaneous disempowering of
adults. Radical kids do not want the same privileges and powers as their
parents and other grown-up counterparts; they consistently demand a
whole new social structure, with decentralized power in the hands of
all. They essentially want to pull the rug out from beneath the
present arrangement and knock its adult rulers on their asses.
Finally, in approaching the idea of kid
liberation, we must keep in mind that we really want to liberate
youth, the mindset of which we are stripped in the process of social
engineering. If we see the world in objective terms—that is, if all we
do is see what is outside of us—we wind up ignoring the internal, the
personal. Freeing our bodies from the dictates of adultocracy and its
cohorts like the state and patriarchy will not liberate our spirits. Nor
will it liberate those of adults who have already undergone the process
of age oppression and had their youth eroded. We must rid our lives of
the entire Establishment and all its institutions and agents which
systematically oppress us in every way possible.
I'm not talking about a movement for
equal rights. I'm not talking about a movement against mere prejudice or
pockets of persecution. I'm talking about total revolution in all
aspects of life, from the profoundly abstract realm of ideology to the
structures which serve it to its insidious manifestations in everyday
life.
In organizing a movement to build a new
society, we need to structure our social change organizations as
microcosmic models of the society we wish to create. If we model
ourselves after our oppressors (intentionally or not), we will wind up
being oppressors, "win" or lose. When we talk about vision and
strategy for a new movement, we must recognize that while the ends do
not justify any means, the means always determine the
ends. This basic tenet of radical wisdom is what has rendered anarchist
revolutionary movements different from their authoritarian counterparts.
So if adultocracy is what we oppose,
then we must too oppose its constructs: the state and hierarchy; private
property and the mass market; white supremacy and xenophobia;
patriarchy; anthro-supremacy; and so on. These are authoritarian
concepts devised by adults, all of them at first incomprehensible to
children and opposed to kids' basic values.
So in our movement, their can be no
private enterprise, no support for the state or creation of parties, no
racism, no sexism, no speciesism or eco-ignorance. There is no room for
these aberrations.
The youth liberation movement must find
and maintain a focus on the issue of ageism. We have to highlight the
fact that ageism is a direct problem, and it is at the root of many
other problems. Like people of color and women, young people are at
greater than normal risk in many areas. We are faced with epidemics like
AIDS and sexual abuse more commonly than are white male adults. Thus,
issues like AIDS and abuse are important to the liberation struggle.
However, we cannot confuse the fight against preventable diseases and
violence with the struggle for liberation.
There are already organizations which
claim to act in the interests of young people the world over. There will
likely be many more to come. Rather than empower young people to act on
their own behalves, these organizations ostensibly defend kids from the
abuses of parents, government, and so forth. This is the epitome of
vanguardism. It is not a terrible thing to have an organized movement,
but the focus of that movement should be the empowerment of the
individual, because, as we know, we can liberate no one but ourselves.
This does not mean we shouldn't struggle
against the oppression of others. We should simply recognize the
limitations of doing so and acknowledge how important it is to act for
ourselves.
Taking a cue from the radical feminists
and anarchists, we should endeavor toward personalized organizing and
activism in order to maintain a strong focus on individual growth. As
long as we are self-organized (rather than herded together by
hierarchs), we will be in solidarity; but only when we are organized
explicitly for autonomy and empowerment will we escape the clutches of
vanguardism and centralization.
Building a Movement Founded on Ideals
An infinite amount of spontaneous
resistance and rebellion, as any parent well knows, can be found among
the children of today or any generation in human history. Children rebel
and lash out. In some cases, psychology has even recognized this as a
natural resistance to authority—but, like most of academia, psychology
has little patience with nonconformity or insubordination and thus deems
such rebellion "irrational," a condition from which children are best
weaned. By accepting this absurd notion of age theory, we internalize
adultocracy.
Young people have an amazing capacity to
resist authority and oppression. For children, to comprehend the
relationship between themselves and adultocracy and thus form a sort of
youth class consciousness is to harness that energy and, possibly, form
a movement for youth liberation.
And this is precisely what the
Establishment fears most. If youth liberation does not take the form of
a spectacle—the "thing to do"—the powers that be cannot absorb and
accommodate it. If it remains inherently grassroots and radical,
stressing the dynamic potential of the individual as well as the potency
of the collective, it cannot be consumed by the Establishment. Indeed,
it will be the seeds of a new society sprouting amongst the roots of the
old.
The youth liberation movement is not now
and hopefully never will be an organization in and of itself; neither
will it be lead by one. Young people do need to come together, to make
ties among the oppressed, not only for mutual aid and solidarity but
also for purposes of visibility and propaganda. But as soon as it
becomes tangible—the moment it can be clearly defined—it also becomes
co-optable.
Youth liberation cannot be rhetoric, it
can only be action. It can no more take the form of slogans and raised
fists than it can appear on t-shirts and bubble gum wrappers. The
revolution will not be televised—nor can it be adorned, nor shouted, nor
purchased, nor profited from. It can only be made, and only at the
grassroots level.
This is not to say that young
revolutionists shouldn't take advantage of every means at their disposal
to spread revolutionary spirit. Indeed, we must make it our purpose in
life. But as soon as the revolution becomes something that can be sold
back to us, or compromised with, it ceases to be revolution at all.
Revolutionary movements on this planet
have a bad record. Those which have not been smashed or accommodated
have devoured themselves. A thorough understanding of the history behind
the revolutionary endeavor is indispensable to the liberationist; as are
concepts of social theory, revolutionary vision and strategy. We must go
about liberating youth in a somewhat prepared, calculated manner.
Youth liberation is very impractical.
Just think of all the obstacles that are in the path of young people
seeking freedom from adult society. Children are considered property,
which means their owners (parents/guardians) have rights over
them, but that kids, as such, have no rights separate from their
parents. The law enforces compulsory attendance in school until at least
age 16. Leaving home is not a legal option in this country. Attempting
to sever ties from abusive parents, a long and arduous undertaking, is
known as "parental divorce," as though there was consent to marriage at
some point!
The law is certainly not on the side of
young people, and so even once the less tangible, more easily opposable
ideological constructs of adultocracy in cultural and interpersonal
realms has been resisted, there is still that matter of the state with
which to be concerned. This is not to mention that the economy treats
children as dependents instead of individuals, which renders the
independence potentially provided by one's own supply of money seriously
deterred.
In this world where the present reality
is revered as The End of History, being an idealist is not easy. Indeed,
when one lives in "Utopia," why aspire for anything different? It is
perhaps easier for children to realize that Utopia is nowhere to be
found in this society than it is for adults to discern the same, the
former having been told the lie fewer times.
As we approach the 21st Century, there
is renewed reason to be optimistic about the prospects for social
change. Despite the fact that the institutions which oppress us are
becoming more and more powerful, more and more solidified, so too is the
revolutionary movement for holistic liberation. In the wake of the
1960s, the North American Left suffered a return to the fractured,
issue-specific forms of the Old Left. But now, in the middle of the
1990s, young radicals are rejuvenating and restructuring the liberation
movement in this society and throughout much of the world.
I am optimistic. I not only believe that
revolution can happen, I become increasingly confident that it will. I
can make no predictions as to when or exactly how it will occur, but I
can be sure of one thing: the first authentic and lasting revolution in
world history will be inspired and made by youth.
The youth liberation movement in the
United States and in many other parts of the world is growing at a
dramatic pace, perhaps more rapidly than any other. Strongly affected
and positively infiltrated by all other liberation movements, including
the anarchist, socialist, feminist, anti-racist, intercommunalist,
ecology, peace and vegan movements, the campaign for youth liberation
carries with it the most holistic demand for social change ever
assembled. The demand is for total revolution in every sphere and aspect
of social and personal life, from institutional conflict to the
everyday.
There is one thing and one thing only
that can stop this new movement. That is the possibility that those who
struggle in its name will grow up. The struggle for liberation is, to a
great extent, a war of attrition. We watch young activists grow older
and, in the process, travel from idealist to realist to uninspired,
apathetic slob; from radical to liberal to indifferent.
If only we can somehow maintain our
idealism while increasing our numbers. The trick, I suppose, is to grow
up without ever yielding to adulthood. But that will remain a rare
resistance until organized, unified solidarity among young people, the
most widely oppressed class in the world, becomes a stable and
consistent reality.
Glossary
The following are terms used in this
pamphlet which are either uncommon or to which the author applies
specific or unpopular definitions.
Accommodation: The process
whereby one side of a struggle, usually the stronger, concedes small
victories to its adversary in hopes the latter's demands will subside in
compromise
Capital: Private wealth, the
means of profiting by virtue of ownership.
Co-optation: Like accommodation,
this is the process whereby one side of the struggle incorporates the
demands or activities of the other into its own strategy, thus weakening
the opponent, or at leat invalidating it.
Dynamics: The social forces
operative in a relationship.
Praxis: The organic combination
of theory and practicve; applied theory/action based directly on theory.
Proletarian: A member of the
proletariat, or the working class; not necessarily lower class, but
someone who neither owns nor manages the means of production (capital).
Radical: The root of a problem,
or one who seeks the root of a problem; fundamental.
Resources
It's important to me that anyone who
reads my work does not feel like the thinking stops there. Then
challenge to understand issues such as ageism and youth liberation are
very intense, especially since not a lot has been written on the
subject. Here is a handful of books and pamphlets which you might find
useful in further researching these topics. This is by no means a
complete list—mostly just stuff I personally recommend.
Albert, Michael, Leslie Cagan, Noam
Chomsky, Robin Hahnel, Mel King, Lydia Sargent, Holly Sklar;
Liberating Theory; Boston: South End Press, 1986. (This is a more
general social theory text; we chose it because it is thorough yet
simple to understand and apply.)
Ayotte, Wendy; As Soon as You're Born
They Make You Feel Small: Self Determination for Children;
independent pamphlet, 1986.*
Chicago Anarchist Youth Federation;
Schoolstoppers Textbook; independent pamphlet. ($1 to CAYF c/o WCF,
PO Box 81961, Chicago, IL 60681 [???].)
Cooperstein, Robert; Some Notes on
the Reproduction of Human Capital; independent pamphlet, 1974.*
Cullen, Stephen; Children in Society:
a libertarian critique; London: Freedom Press, 1991 (pamphlet).
Freire, Paulo; Pedogogy of the
Oppressed; New York: Herter and Herter, 1971.
Gatto, John Taylor; Dumbing Us Down:
the Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling: Philadelphia: New
Society Publishers, 1992.
Goodman, Paul; Compulsory Mis-education
and The Community of Scholars; New York: Vintage Books, 1964.
Illich, Ivan; Deschooling Society;
New York: Harrow Books, 1970.
Holt, John; Freedom and Beyond;
New York: E.P. Dutton & Co., 1972.
How Children Fail; New York:
Delta, 1964.
Llewellyn, Grace; The Teenage
Liberation Handbook: how to quit school and get a real life and
education; (publisher and date unavailable).
Miller, Alice; For Your Own Good:
Hidden cruelty in child-rearing and the roots of violence; 3rd
edition, New York: Noonday Press, 1990.
*These and other relevant essays can be
found in a special edition of Anarchy: A journal of Desire Armed,
issue #27, Winter '90-91. I cannot promise that they have back stocked
copies available, but you can find out by writing: B.A.L. Press, PO Box
2647, P. Stuyvesant Station, New York, NY 10009.
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